9 REASONS WHY GUYS LOVE TO BE IN TRUE RELATIONSHIPS

The truth is bachelorhood has a lot of advantages and perks which we guys enjoy. We can do what we want with nobody bearing down our necks coupled with the fact that we have a leeway to be promiscuous. However, despite these perks, no man wants to spend the whole of his life running from one girl to the other in the name of dating. When we get to the point where we start feeling the need to have a woman to lean on, including having romantic feelings, that is when we actually want to drop the bachelor hood garb and try something in the form of commitment.

Almost all guys want to end up in a serious relationship at the end. We want someone that we can share our innermost happiness and things with. Someone that can offer some sort of stability as we tread through the stormy waters of life. So, what exactly brings us to this point of love in our lives? Come along with us as we bring 9 reasons why we love being in a relationship.

Lots of sex
Being in a relationship offers the opportunity for unlimited sex which comes mostly without any form of strings attached. There is a major reduction in financial inducements as opposed to when we were jumping about. We also don’t have to go through awkward conversations where the girl asks us “what does this mean for us?” as we are already committed to you.

No awkward morning-afters
This is one of the niceties that comes with being in a relationship. We no longer have to bother with awkward morning-afters which may involve conversations and various other things. We can choose to not make breakfast and also decide to talk about the previous night or not. Irrespective of what we do, there is no underlying feeling and no one has leave to take a cab home in anger.

We are appreciated 
At last, we have found a girl that recognises our manly and alpha abilities. Things such as hanging frames and little repairs of things that are broken around the house gives us the opportunity to show off our skills. This also reveals our handy nature and the respective tools we have to deal with the broken problems. We finally get someone to show off to who will be impressed.

Shared cleaning duties
We don’t have to bother about how the stress of cleaning up the house as the duties are soon to be shared. We want this so much as we don’t have to go through too much to achieve that spotless clean appearance.

There’s way more experimentation 
We are tired of the one night stand and paying for sex. There’s no way in hell we can try and test out new sexual positions which we are not sure of but we crave innately. Also, it will be difficult to make a video with just a date for us to watch it later on. All these can be done and achieved in a relationship and we so much crave and want this.

You encourage our dreams
A girl committed to us would make us think we can achieve big things even when we seriously doubt ourselves. And that is a huge bonus.

You challenge our ideas
A lot of the time, you help us sift and fine tune our ideas. Whether it’s an extremely dull one or one that can change the world, being in a relationship affords us the opportunity to have someone close challenge our ideas for us to be better.

You know us better than anybody else
You seem to know us better and that’s why we want to be committed. Our colleagues at work see our professional side, our friends see our funny and rowdy side. Our girlfriends see it all from the stubborn, tender, generous to the cranky side. And despite the fact you know all these about us, you don’t judge us and you love us irrespective of the flaws and rough spots we’ve got.
More so, you will tell us the truth when others don’t. Whether we are wearing pants that are too tight or a geeky shirt, you’d tell us and strive to make us appear our best.

Privilege of checking you out
It might seem pervy but we’d always check you out. That time you come out of the shower with nothing but a towel around you and you drop it to put on your bra and panties. Then slip on your your blouse and skirt. All of that is part of what we live for and why we want to be in a relationship.

DEAR READER : 10 KINDS OF WOMEN A CHRISTIAN MAN SHOULD AVOID WHEN CONSIDERING MARRIAGE

“I have perceived among the youths, a young

man lacking sense, passing along the street near

her corner, taking the road to her

house” (Proverbs 7: 7-8 )

Marriage - a lifetime covenant, an irrevocable oath reconized by GOD, man and spirits, separable only by death. With this truth in mind, a man has to be very careful and wise when considering marriage. And if you follow the counsel of GOD, HE will go before you to lead you to the right path.

NOTE: This is not a sexist post. It's only a guide for men intending to get married.

So here's the 10 women to avoid when considering marriage:

1. THE UNBELIEVER: Scripture is replete with

exhortations against such marriages (in both the

Old and New Testaments). Contrary to popular

misconception, God’s prohibition against

marriages to foreign women in the Old Testament

was not due to racism. Instead, God was simply

preventing the spread of idolatry. Israel, God’s

chosen people in the Old Testament, represented

what Christians would later represent in the New

Testament. Hence, God’s prohibition against

marrying an unbelieving woman in the New

Testament (2 Cor 6:14) is simply the extension of

God prohibiting a Hebrew man from from

marrying a Canaanite woman in the Old

Testament (Deut 7:3-4). “Do not intermarry with

them. Do not give your daughters to their sons

or take their daughters for your sons, for they

will turn your children away from following ME

to serve other gods, and the LORD’s anger will

burn against you and will quickly destroy

you” (Deut 7:3-4).

What then, is a believer? A Christian essentially

is someone who believes in the gospel of Jesus

Christ. What then, is the gospel? The gospel is:

1. God is holy, loving, and just. He therefore,

must condemn all sinners to punishment in the

flames of eternal hell; 2. You and I are all

sinners who deserve nothing but God’s wrath in

hell after our deaths; 3. God loved humanity so

much that He sent His only Son, Jesus (who was

fully God and fully man), to die on the cross for

your sins. Jesus paid the debt for your sins and

absorbed God’s wrath on your behalf. 3 days

later, Jesus resurrected from the dead; 4. If you

repent (turn from) all your sins and personally

put your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord, God

and Savior, then you will have eternal life. 

2. THE DIVORCEE: Jesus clearly taught that unless

the first marriage ended due to a partner’s sexual

infidelity, a second marriage is to be considered

invalid and adulterous. A divorced woman, therefore, is

off limits for a Christian man. Unrepentant

adultery being a sin that prevents one from

obtaining eternal life (1 Cor 6:9). “If she

divorces her husband and marries another, she

commits adultery” (Mark 10:12). “And I say to

you: whoever divorces his wife, except for sexual

immorality, and marries another, commits

adultery” (Matthew 19:9).

3. THE OLDER WOMAN: Not a sin, but certainly

not God’s ideal. God expects men to be the

spiritual leaders of the home (Eph 5:25) and it

certainly requires an extra measure of grace to

lead a woman who’s older than you. Again, if

you’re a man and you’re already in such a

marriage, then honor it till the day you die–it’s

still a valid marriage and divorce is not an

option! However, if you’re not yet married but

thinking about an older woman I want to remind

you that God intentionally (with good reason!)

created Adam before Eve in the First Marriage.

Scripture informs us that God created man first

chronologically for the sake of authority! Listen:

“I do not permit a woman to teach or to exercise

authority over a man; rather, she is to remain

quiet. For Adam was formed first, then Eve” (1

Timothy 2:12-13). Evidently, within the First

Marriage, God intended chronology (age) to be a

reason for authority.

Apparently, even secular researchers are now

beginning to discover results that back up God’s

wisdom as demonstrated in the Bible:

“If you’re a woman two or more years

older than your husband, your marriage

is 53 percent more likely to end in

divorce than if he was one year younger

to three years older.” (Source: Rebecca

Kippen, Bruce Chapman and Peng Yu,

“What’s Love Got to Do With It? Homogamy

and Dyadic Approaches to Understanding

Marital Instability,” Melbourne Institute of

Applied Economic and Social Research,

2009.)

4. THE FEMINIST: There’s no room within

Christendom for the “Christian feminist.” Though

women and men have equal value in the eyes of

God (Gal 3:28), they certainly have different God-

given roles. Any woman who tries to usurp her

husband’s authority or even claims to be a co-

leader with her man is gravely dishonoring the

God who created her to be subject and obedient

to her husband (Eph 5:22, Col 3:18, 1 Pet 3:1).

Eve was distinctly created “for” man, a point that

the apostle Paul makes abundantly clear in 1

Corinthians 11 when he writes, “For man was not

made from woman, but woman from man.

Neither was man created for woman, but woman

for man.” (1 Corinthians 11:8-9). Men, your wife

is to be your “helper” (Gen 2:18)–not your leader

and certainly not your equal in terms of

authority. Look for a woman who agrees with

you in this very vital God-ordained relational

dynamic.

5. THE IMMODEST-DRESSER : Sexy might

inadvertently catch your eyeballs, but it

shouldn’t catch your heart. The way that a

woman is willing to expose herself says much

about her heart: 

“And behold, the woman meets

him, dressed as a prostitute, wily of

heart” (Proverbs 7:10). 

The text in Proverbs

explains that a woman will dress in a certain way

to catch a certain type of man. Don’t be that

man. Don’t be the fool who’s led by his

hormones instead of the Holy Spirit. Remember:

you want godly, not gaudy.

6. THE GOSSIPER/SLANDERER: Women may love to

talk, but there’s wisdom in looking for a woman

who speaks with wisdom. Gossip and slander are

not good things to have in your marriage.

Desperate housewives make for desperate

husbands. “Besides that, they learn to be idlers,

going about from house to house, and not only

idlers, but also gossips and busybodies, saying

what they should not.” (1 Timothy 5:13).

7. THE CHILDBIRTH AVOIDER: Do not marry a

woman who is not willing to have children of her

own. In the Christian worldview, there is

absolutely no room for two married, biologically

capable, human beings to remain intentionally

child-less. If you are adverse towards having

children, then there’s a simple remedy for that:

single-hood. However, if God has called you to

marriage, then He actually expects children.

Both the New and Old Testaments are very clear

on this teaching: “Did he not make them one,

with a portion of the Spirit in their union? And

what was the one God seeking ? Godly

offspring” (Malachi 2:15). “Yet she will be saved

through childbearing—if they continue in faith

and love and holiness, with self-control” (1

Timothy 2:15).

8. THE WANDER-LUSTER: There’s nothing wrong

with the occasional family vacation. There is

something very wrong with a girl who regularly

needs to be “out of the home.” The constant

desire for new experiences, new places, new

faces, and new forms of entertainment only

serves to clearly manifest the fact that the

woman has not found her rest in God. Believe it

or not, Scripture speaks repeatedly about such

women: “She is loud and wayward; her feet do

not stay at home ” (Proverbs 7:11); “Besides,

they get into the habit of being idle and going

about from house to house . And not only do

they become idlers, but also busybodies who talk

nonsense, saying things they ought not to” (1

Timothy 5:13).

9. THE CARIEER-FIRST WOMAN: Now, I want to

clarify something here. There is nothing wrong

with a woman who works (Acts 16:14), what’s

wrong is a woman who puts her career ahead of

her family. Modern society might hate

to hear this, but God made men to be the

providers and women to be the nurturers of the

home (in most instances). It’s okay for a woman

to be a doctor, attorney, or any other

professional. However, if her career is coming at

the expense of her home, then something is

wrong. If day-care is raising her young children

while she’s working, then something is wrong. I

understand that there might be a season of life

where the wife might have to be the main bread-

winner due to her husband’s unemployment, but

it should not be the desired norm. The woman

ought to be willing (and even desirous–to some

extent) to give up her job for the sake of raising

her kids in the Lord. “So I counsel younger

widows to marry, to have children, to manage

their homes and to give the enemy no

opportunity for slander” (1 Tim 5:14).

10. THE DEVOTION-LESS WOMAN : Is the woman

having a regular, daily devotional time with her

God? If she doesn’t love the Lord now, chances

are, she won’t love the Lord after marriage.

(Don’t delude yourself–you’re not going to

change her.) You want to marry a girl who has

an intimate relationship with Jesus. Jesus (not

you) has to be the first man in her life. Here are

some good questions to ask: Does she have an

active prayer life? Does she have a heart for

evangelism? Is she hungry for God’s Word?

What does her pastor think about her?

Do you remember this account from Scripture:

Now as they went on their way, Jesus entered a

village. And a woman named Martha welcomed

him into her house. [39] And she had a sister

called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and

listened to his teaching. [40] But Martha was

distracted with much serving. And she went up to

him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my

sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to

help me.” [41] But the Lord answered her,

“Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled

about many things, [42] but one thing is

necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion,

which will not be taken away from her.” (Luke

10:38-42 ESV)

Marry the Mary (no pun intended). Such women

have picked “…the good portion, which will not

be taken away” from them. God be with you

men. Strong families start with strong wives.

Choose wisely and choose in the Lord!

Credits : post man - NAIRALAND

WHAT YOUR ZODIAC ABOUT YOUR SEXUALITY

Did you know that your zodiac sign can reveal a lot about you and your personal preferences? The planets, points, and your sun sign, when combined, show your personality in a relationship. Mars and Venus are considered the relationship and sex planets, so here is what your zodiac sign says about your sex life:

• Aries
It is a sign of infancy. People under this zodiac sign want to be first at everything and are easily hurt. They can’t stand rejection but make a quick come back. They are not much into romance and flowers. They love spice in their sex life and believe in actions. If they want something, they want it. And if you are the one what they want, you are going to enjoy being with them.

• Taurus
Taureans enjoy slow and steady seductive movements between the sheets. They are firm in their decisions and are reliable. They love having uncomplicated and undisturbed sex in pleasant surroundings. They can repeat the same things in bed without getting bored.

• Gemini
This category of people are stimulated mentally first then physically. Their moods swing and they are easily distracted, so you better catch the opportunity when they are in the mood. You are going to enjoy intercourse with a Gemini, they like to talk about sex while having sex.

• Cancer
This is the most emotional sign, they crave love and this is what they want to get in the mood. If you want to enjoy your Cancer partner make him feel loved. Be romantic, touchy, and seductive with them to have them at their best. They are often possessive.

• Leo
Leo is a good match for a Pisces. Leos are sexually confident and passionate. They are good at exploring different styles between the sheets. This is the best sexual sign, all they want is a little attention.

• Virgo
Virgos are sweet and romantic. They expect perfection and want their partner to be perfect in bed. A Virgo will always look for someone who is neat, clean, and well-groomed. They respond generously to kind and giving behavior.

• Libra
A sophisticated and amazing bedmate, Libras struggle to make decisions. They love experimenting and pleasing. A Libra will go out of his/her comfort zone to keep things interesting for his/her partner. During intercourse they prefer grace over vulgarity.

• Scorpio
Scorpios are passionate in bed and in everything they do. They are happiest when they’re in a healthy and happy sexual relationship. They are emotional and sensitive yet dominating at times. They are choosy when it comes to partners, they have high standards in every area.

• Sagittarius
People with this zodiac sign love their freedom and experiencing new and different things. They don’t have any limits in bed and can change their partners and experiences frequently. They tend to be bachelors longer.

• Capricorn
Capricorns are usually goal-oriented but when they get into fire they perform well. They are shy, dependable, sensuous, and reserved lovers. They love going slow and enjoy pre-intimacy more than other things. They are not adventurous and you will have to try harder to convince them to try new things.

• Aquarius
They are intellectual and their libidos rise in relation to their mental stimulation. They try new things only if they sound interesting to them. They start slowly but can get really passionate during the process. Once they are totally in, they will spark the fire.

• Pisces
People under this zodiac are more emotional than intellectual. It’s a water sign and they possess a high level of maturity when it comes to relationships. They go with the flow and trust their intuitions about people. In bed they can easily sense what should be their next move.

GETTING MARRIED AND HAVING A KOKO JUNIOR IN DBANJ'S NEW YEAR LIST

Dbanj in an exclusive interview with NETNG talked about his private life and the pressure on him to get married and start making babies. The Koko master however went further to say that he will likely get married and have a child this year for he had the initial plans last year but his brother Kay-Switch welcomed his daughter and the joy of his niece around made him forget about his proposed plans but his sure that this year he will relentlessly make an effort to seeing to the actualisation of being married and have a Koko Junior lol In his words

 ‘Yes, I was under pressure towards the end of last year to get married, my mum really wanted it.’  When asked if he has plans of taking a bride home to his mum this year

‘Well, I don’t know yet but I know that I am intending to do it this year. More importantly for me, I’ve always wanted to have a child, but last year my brother, Kay Switch had a child and it brought so much joy to me. So this year, I’m thinking of settling down to have my own Koko junior soon.’…

HUSBAND FINDS WIFE UNCLAD PHOTOS ONLINE AFTER TWO YEARS MARRIAGE

According to the source who sent this story to our e-mail, the source said the husband of the lady in the picture works with one of the new generation banks. The young couple who hails from the South-South region of Nigeria  had their extravagant wedding in April 2012 in Lagos and they are blessed with a baby girl. Recently, last month to be precise, one of the husband's colleagues in the bank called the attention of Mr. Fidelis Brizemo (the lady's husband) to his wife's naked pictures that he saw on one of Nigerian Bloggers' websites (website name withheld).
When the husband logged on to the said website, behold, it was his wife's full naked pictures with tale stories. The husband who could not control his mood, quickly called his wife on the phone and asked her to explain what she knew about her nude pictures circulating the internet. It was gathered that the wife could not deny the pictures as she was aware of them since 2010 when she took the pictures in her university days inside school hostel. But it was learnt that after the wife explained to her husband that she did not know how the pictures found their way to the internet, the husband was not ready to listen to her explanations as both of them are now living separately.

See pictures below:

I hope some of our girls will have a lesson to learn from the story

WHY I RAN AWAY WITH MY LOVER - STORY OF A RUN AWAY TEENAGE GIRL

A runaway teenage girl, Taiwo Olakunle, who was believed to be hiding at a lover’s place, resurfaced last week Thursday at her family church on Taju Bello Street, Oke Aro Road in the Iju area of Lagos.Olakunle, 18, had fled home since Wednesday, November 12, 2014.PUNCH Metro had reported last Wednesday, January 14, that the police at Iju were searching for the teenager, who until her disappearance was staying with her guardians on Adeosun Street, Balogun bus stop, Iju.Our correspondent learnt that Olakunle came back to her church area the following day after PUNCH Metro’s report, and requested to see her grandmother, who also lived in the area.It was gathered that officers from the Iju Police Division, who learnt of her appearance, moved to the place and took her away to the station for questioning.

Olakunle told the police on Friday in her statement that she fled from home to stay with a lover in the Alagbado area.She said she fled from the area because she was worried that her suspected assaulters were charged to court by the police, which she did not think was a good step. She added that she was worried about her safety.

She said, “Those guys who beat me up were truly arrested by the police, and they were asked to get me treated. I did not know they would be charged to court for it.“When I learnt that they were charged to court, I was troubled. I then decided to leave the area and run to a lover’s house.

The statement the police took from me was perhaps doctored to make the men’s offence seem bigger. I did not expect they would be taken to court.”Speaking with PUNCH Metro, the husband of Olakunle’s aunt, Ibrahim Lawal, said the family was glad to have the girl back.He said, “My wife and I had suffered. It got to a point that people said we had used the girl for rituals.

We are glad that she was back.”The Lagos State Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Kenneth Nwosu, confirmed that the runaway girl had been seen.He said, “Olakunle is at the Iju Police Division. She had been hiding at a boyfriend’s place.“There are further enquiries going on. She will be thereafter reunited with her guardians.”Our correspondent learnt on Sunday that Olakunle had left the police division, and she was now at her grandmother’s place near the family church in Iju Ishaga.

SEVEN WONDERS OF A TYPICAL NIGERIAN GIRL

Seven wonders of a naija girl

I choose to use the word "Girl" instead of "Ladies" because I suppose that the later should know better, but unfortunately it's not always so.

A Typical Nigerian Girl is one who swallow hook, line and sinker everything she watches from Home videos, Hollywood and Telemundos...

Her role models are stars who has no good record when it comes to chastity and morals. Better put, Stars with indecent records...

I know some of these are common with ladies all over the world but most are unique to us here... Our brain is too much 


Seven Wonders Of A Typical Nigerian Girl...


1. She asks you to borrow her money that she knows you wouldn't ask her to refund.

Their new style is "Borrow me, I'll pay back", How you wan take pay back na? You ain't working, How? I prefer to just freely give than to expect ANY lady to pay back! Hmmmm...
They don't ask too much because that might not be feasible. She may request around #3000 to #5000... Is it wrong to "beg" money? No! But, must you beg sef? Some girls are just too "BIG EYED". If your parents don't have it, don't go about begging! You will soon begin to open your legs for it! It's just plain Discontentment! 



2. They Want To Trap A Guy With Pregnancy Just Because Of Marriage.


This school of thought is same with even the so called "Learned" ladies...It's a pity because he will NEVER love you which is actually why you want to trap him. Abstinence from Pre-marital sex is just the solution. You see a small looking girl and her appearance is like that of an old woman! SMH! Beaten and Battered! Even three bras put together can't lift it up... 



3. She Spends Her Youthful Days Flexing And Partying And Her Pre-Thirty Years Praying And Searching


To whom it may concern: 
You and church are far apart now... you spend every weekend in your boyfriend's house...he cheats on you and you're back to Square One...Going to church more than ever...Joined Choir or Usher (where guys will notice you). But, they're not... Do you have to go through all that? 



4. She Believes She Can Transform A Guy, with what??


The fact you have nice curves and all doesn't make other girls not to have them.
Trying to change a guy (anyone at all) doesn't work except on movies and novels.
In fact, the only way to change him is to stand your ground! He wants sex before marriage? You give him and automatically and immediately he loses respect for you! ZERO TRUST for you till Jesus comes!



5. Jack Of All Trades Master Of None


I dunno what's so cool about dating different guys when you know you truly love just one! 
I am talking about Multi-dating. 
It's so common now especially with the invent of social networks like bbm, Facebook, whatsapp, badoo, 2go etc. 
If he tells you He loves You and wants to marry , stop freaking out- think Future, Get to really know him. Flirting is a dangerous game!



6. Suffocating Her Dreams For A Rich Dude...


I was interacting with a Typical Nigerian girl one time and we discussed along these lines. Her comment about a friend of hers was "She was lucky, she just married a rich man, and me too I also want the same .." (i know she spends half of her day with junks over the TV) It is disheartening that most girls (at this age) just wants a man that will buy even toothbrush for them...Their plan is to enter into marriage with nothing but "Ghana Must Go" Haba! Even their dreams and aspirations can go to blazes if only they can find that guy... Since she left University, when was the last time she read a book? Hmm!



7. Adding No Mental Value To Themselves.

Continuing from Point 6, reading flies away from her dictionary after university! She feels relieved after school. Instead, she prefers to spend 6 hours in her friend's house talking from flats to grants, the whole day at the saloon or two days in front of the TV watching the Kardashians and Home Videos... Nothing to do to add to her mental capacity! Such ones wants to marry The Smart Ones to complement for their inadequacies! That she could do something about!  Now that a child's intelligence taps 80% from the mum nko! hmm...


This is a Wake Up Call...Not A Bashing Thread, as it were...

Don't take it too personal...

Do something today, your children can really thank you for tomorrow!

A wise woman builds her house. A foolish one plucks it down! 
IT STARTS NOW, not then!

8 MEN OF GOD ! 8 DIFFERENT REVELATIONS IN 2015 : WHO DO WE BELIEVE

If by now, you have read at least two, three or more of the several prophecies for 2015 from the different Nigerian men of God, then you are probably as confused as we are.
These men of God hear from the same God but they come up with slightly different visions for Nigeria this year
Their prophecies revolved around the Nigerian economy, Ebola, the upcoming general election, Aso Rock intrigues, the entertainment industry, death, death and more death.

Kick starting the trend is the highly respected General Overseer of the Redeemed Christian Church of God who revealed his at the cross over night.

He revealed that the dreaded Ebola Virus Disease, which has killed over 7,000 people so far, will finally die, he however warned that God said the world should pray against “massive calamities, massive earthquakes and strong hurricanes and typhoons.”
On the February elections, he said “Unfortunately, because it is election year, I can’t tell you all that God told me about Nigeria. But I will tell you this: “By the end of the year, many will say ‘all is well that ends well.'”



Not quite agreeing with Adeboye, Prophet Iginla who is based in Abuja, says Ebola will return to Nigeria.

He released his 2015 prophecy during a special service in his church at Kubwa, Abuja days ago.
On the February Elections: No matter how powerful or well organized 2015 election is, it will be faulted. I am not a politician nor belong to any political party, I am just speaking God’s mind. The person sitting on the seat might not be perfect, but he will retain the seat. It’s not guess work. Howbeit, it will be a battle between the lion and the tiger…Shortly after the election, especially on the night of the election, there will be great vandalisation. I see cars being burnt, lives killed.
GEJ’s health and death in Aso Rock: [/i]President Jonathan will win, but he has to pray about his health and so many political blows. I pray the two people that enter the Aso Villa will leave together. That’s why we should pray for the woman beside the president. The president and wife should pray that the first lady would finish the tenure together and not losing one before the end of their tenure.
[i]On fake pastors: [/i]Also, many men of God indulging in voodoo or occultism, mixing white with black will experience God’s judgement in 2015. Great judgement in the sense that they will be exposed and lots of things will happen that will be the end of such ministries. I saw a very popular man of God who is highly respected mourned.
The reason is that his wife will be called to glory. It will be a great shock to him because he is highly respected. I am not permitted to mention his name.
[i]Plane crash: I see great politicians and ministers in one aircraft. Three prominent faces were among them, but the plane crashed. They should be careful of traveling in group, irrespective of where they are going…Specifically, Kogi State Governor should pray to survive 2015. I saw him struggling for breath.
Entertainment Industry: [/i]A very popular musician, young artiste who sings secular songs should pray against death. He is like someone trying to sell his soul to the devil and it resulted to death. I am not permitted to mention his name.
[i]ASUU: I see ASUU strike and it will be long and will shake the system, but restored later. I see Russian economy under attack by a strange hand. They have to pray so that a strong country like that won’t be brought low prowling for survival.
Death: I see a former president of Nigeria giving up the ghost this year. And people trooping down to his home state for burial. His candle light has burned out already and nothing we can do to it.

The General Overseer of Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries, Dr D.K Olukoya, on the other hand spoke in parables. He described 2015 as a mysterious year, caution year and dribble year.
“I will speak in parables. This year is going to be a mysterious, cautious and dribbling year, so, you will have to find the solutions instead of diagnosing the problems carried by the year.”

Moving on, founder of INRI Evangelical Spiritual Church, Oke-Afa, Lagos, Primate Elijah Ayodele Babatunde, had quite alot to say but he had a similar prophecy with Prophet Igina.


General elections: This year’s election will throw up a lot of issues. President Goodluck Jonathan will do everything to win a second term, however, he needs 14 days prayer to have a peaceful reign to enable him complete a second term. Chairman of Independent National Electoral Commission (INEC), Prof. Attahiru Jega will be confused during the polls. There will be several gimmicks to cajole the INEC to rig the election. E-voting will not work. There will be ballot box snatching and stuffing during the election.
GEJ’s health and death in Aso Rock: The President should also commit his health and that of his wife to prayer. Jonathan is in the midst of enemies who are after his life.
Economy: The stock exchange will rise in the early part of the year. Effect of devaluation of naira will continue till around August. Minister of Finance, Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala, despite her World Bank background, will not be able to make appreciable impact on the economy. Some banks will collapse and one of the dead banks will be resuscitated.
Entertainers: Journalists and Nollywood stars need prayers against sudden death. National secretariat of Nigeria Union of Journalists (NUJ) will experience crisis.
ASUU: Some universities will be shut because of cultism and some Vice Chancellors will be queried.
Plane Crash: We need to pray to avoid plane crash in Lagos, Abuja and Kano airports. Presidential jets should be sanctified to avoid artificial disaster.
Ebola: There will be fresh cases of Ebola in the year, let those in the health sector double their efforts.
Death: We should pray against death of one of the outgoing governors, a first lady and communication guru.

Pastor Tunde Bakare of the Latter Rain Assembly, while speaking during the church’s crossover service solely prophesied on the Chibok girls.
“The Chibok girls will be returned this year; some people will say ‘they are just using religion to deceive themselves. How will the girls be rescued?’ You will see. I didn’t say it, it is what God said and I believe it.”
And then prophesied joy!
“Whether you are from the East or from the West or from the North or the South, you will experience joy in 2015. Other nations will say ‘how did they do it.’ It will be indescribable joy. The nations of the earth will testify. I bring good tidings of joy to every part of the nation…”

Acclaimed man of God, Apostle Johnson Suleiman had lots of bad news for the Nation. [/b]One of his prophecies was that 2015 election would be a replica of June 12. He said Jonathan should be prayerful as there are plans to kill him and going international, he said Queen Elizabeth will pass on this year.
Queen Elizabeth: Britain needs prayers because of her Queen.
GEJ’s health and Aso Rock: I see president Goodluck Jonathan coming back but troubles….Patience Jonathan needs serious prayers.
[b]General Elections: 2015 presidential election will be rigged, marred in violence and end up in court case.2015 election is another June 12. The man who truly won will not govern or rule.
Men of God: A great Pentecostal man of God been called to glory. A popular Abuja pastor needs serious prayers. I saw mourning. Prophets who deceive people, collects their properties, charge money, will face great judgment this year. A great man of God whose first name begins with 3rd letter and Surname with 15th letter needs serious prayers. I saw serious crisis and crying. Please let’s pray for him.
Economy: I saw the Naira falling greatly. It became N200 (two hundred naira) to 1$ (a dollar).
Entertainment Industry: Three popular musicians will die; one of them is a young boy.
Plane Crash: Pray against three major Air disasters between February and October.
Oh by the way, he had a word for er, El Rufai.
“El Rufai should go and sit down. For abusing Jesus, he will not win Kaduna election.”

T.B Joshua of The Synagogue, Church Of All Nations (SCOAN) in Lagos, on his part, declared 2015 to be ‘the year of good morning’.

“If you are expecting a New Year, you must be pure in heart,” he stressed, reminding the faithful of Jesus Christ’s words in Matthew 5:8. “If not, the troubled year of 2014 will continue in 2015,” he warned.
“No matter what this coming year brings, if you are more of God, your trials are the soil in which your faith will flourish,” he enjoined the congregation.
He stressed that the freedom the Bible speaks of in John 8:36 is spiritual not physical, insisting that a ‘free spirit,’ was needed for Christians to enjoy peace throughout 2015. “This liberation of your spirit is all you need to have the best year,” he stated.

And then, Bishop Oyedepo of Winners chapel crowned it with his good news!
The year 2015 will be a year with clear distinctions, he began.
He maintained that giants would rise up in all sectors of human endeavour adding that there would be a sudden rise of giants in Zion.
“In 2015, nobody will doubt those who serve God; It will be clear that we are only in the world, not of the world; in 2015, my God will wipe away all your tears; There shall be no occasion for mourning or weeping; Throughout 2015, you are not permitted to bury anyone in your life because there shall be no more death; in 2015, some things that cause you sorrow will be far from you and in 2015, you will not need any medication to be healthy.
There shall be a rise of many giants – giants in all sectors of human endeavor; Men like nations will rise in the year 2015; Men that will command attention of many nations shall arise in 2015 and God has brought us into the realm of heaven on earth, where men will live like angels”

It births the question...so who is truly hearing from God?

DEAR READER : PUBLIC OPINION NEEDED - HELP MY 4YEARS OLD MARRIAGE IS GRADUALLY FADING OUT

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Please i need matured advise...

My name is mrs Ola, you are free to post my story with my name on it, because i want my husband to read it and the comments that will follow it.

I got married 4years ago,@ age 27 as a virgin, while my husband was 31, but now 35yrs old. Our marriage is blessed with a baby girl of 2 and half yrs old. The problem i am about to share is something that is killing me gradually.

My husband don't see sex as something to be enjoy @ all, he hates talking about it, and he only have it once or twice in a month, but me, hmmmm, may be because i was newly disflowerd i dont know i feel like having it everytime. When i told my mother about it, she said i should discuss with my hubby about it, and how often i want it, which i did,instead of my hubby to satisfy my sexual urge, he said we must fast and pray against the spirit that its not normal for me to be having such urge, because its ungodly.

I discuss with my elder sister who is married too but not as a virgin, she advice me to divorce my hubby because as far as she is concerned my marriage cant work with a man who dont believe that sex is to be enjoyed between couples in marriage. To be honest, i am not enjoy anything in my marriage because my hubby is more holier than bible itself.

Everyting seems to be sin to him, if i sleep Unclad to impress him he will use big blacket to cover me in the night, if i wear skipy clothe within the house he will ask me to wear another one to cover up.

Pls house help me, i need serious advice, because i am contemplating divorce or self service which i know is a serious sin before God.