Friday 9 January 2015

DEAR READER : PUBLIC OPINION NEEDED - HELP MY 4YEARS OLD MARRIAGE IS GRADUALLY FADING OUT

07:54 By sommy


STRICTLY FOR MATURED MINDS

PLEASE (NO INSULTS)
Please i need matured advise...

My name is mrs Ola, you are free to post my story with my name on it, because i want my husband to read it and the comments that will follow it.
I got married 4years ago,@ age 27 as a virgin, while my husband was 31, but now 35yrs old. Our marriage is blessed with a baby girl of 2 and half yrs old. The problem i am about to share is something that is killing me gradually.

My husband don't see sex as something to be enjoy @ all, he hates talking about it, and he only have it once or twice in a month, but me, hmmmm, may be because i was newly disflowerd i dont know i feel like having it everytime. When i told my mother about it, she said i should discuss with my hubby about it, and how often i want it, which i did,instead of my hubby to satisfy my sexual urge, he said we must fast and pray against the spirit that its not normal for me to be having such urge, because its ungodly.

I discuss with my elder sister who is married too but not as a virgin, she advice me to divorce my hubby because as far as she is concerned my marriage cant work with a man who dont believe that sex is to be enjoyed between couples in marriage. To be honest, i am not enjoy anything in my marriage because my hubby is more holier than bible itself.

Everyting seems to be sin to him, if i sleep Unclad to impress him he will use big blacket to cover me in the night, if i wear skipy clothe within the house he will ask me to wear another one to cover up.

Pls house help me, i need serious advice, because i am contemplating divorce or self service which i know is a serious sin before God.